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How do I get my ex-fiancé back?

hi, how do I get my ex-fiancé back? We recently started talking again. He still loves me, but just moved in with his girlfriend of three years (I was with him for 8). His girlfriend has four children by another man. My ex seems to feel some obligation to her, not love. How do I break through?
 
 
Hi,
 
To get him back something needs to change. If he's gone, it's because you two reached the limits of what you could share together.
 
To take it one step further and keep evolving together, you need to bring in something new, something you did not do before.
 
Forget about force, ultimatums, etc. Modern human rights claim the power of self determination. I agree!
 
Everyone is free. Now imagine that within that freedom, he realizes that what you have to offer is the best thing that could happen to him. Shift your perspective and think for a second: what is the best thing that could happen to him? What do you feel is his next step in his personal evolution?
 
Don't use control! Set him free instead! If he feels free, he'll have no problem spending time with you.
 
You see, we can't cheat with someone's destiny line. We all have a powerful spirit overseeing our lives and bringing us where we have to be. Sometimes these lines open up! Sometimes they don't! True
 
The best thing is to "partner" with his spirit and give that man what he most needs! Are you in his future or in his past. Are you part of something he had to experience in the past or do you have something significant to offer him in the future.
 
There is a great logic in life! It's called synchronicity! It happens when two people truly meet: common needs, common desire, same life vision. WIN - WIN always.
 
If you feel you are not in his future right now, what could you do to be in it. Take a deep breath and start taking steps to be there. It's an incredible opportunity for both of you!
 
Don't think you are doing that for him! Do it for yourself!
 
It seems he feels responsible for her children? Maybe his "fatherhood" instinct is waking up! Can you two have children together?
 
What's the best way to bring this idea in perspective? If that's what is in the future for him... Maybe the idea of having his own children could be very attractive to him.
 
Enjoy!
 

 

  

 

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