Getting your ex back? You might be in for quite a battle. It does not mean it can't work. It means that if you want to stand a chance, you really have to do what it takes to make it work.

This means going deep inside in the way you two functioned and find out exactly what did not work.

Most of the times break ups are related with control issues or the fact that the passion is gone or that the relationship became too "limiting" for one or both partners.

It's quite natural to hope for getting back together. However it rarely happens in reality. Most couples who split stay apart simply because it's easier to build something from scratch rather than trying to bring back the pieces together

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