Hi,

I know it is tough. When your partner is gone and you want him back.

I'll be direct, okay?

The way to have a chance is to radically shift the way you stand in all that.

When guys see you waiting or dependent or clingy, they simply tend to run away.

It's not because they don't care, it's simply because it is too much on them.

When you tell them:

"Without you, my life is nothing..."

You can see this as a compliment, right?

You imagine he will say: "Whaou! She loves me so much...".

True!

Part of him says that but deep inside another voice says: "It's too much on my shoulders"

Guys enjoy independent and free girls.

They enjoy their self confidence.

They crave to spend time with girls who stretch themselves, take risks, are fun to be with.

They like women who manifest all these qualities.

They tend to run away from the comfortable energy cluster of a relationship the moment they find it limiting.

What you give him is comfort, security, harmony, etc.

These qualities only stand for 30% in the relationship equation.

For the rest, a guy needs passion, thrill, challenge, renewal, change, etc.

You get the picture?

If you want to be in his life in the future, that's the new qualities you need to develop.

If you do it for him, forget it!

You have to do it for yourself first and truly own your tools

If you stay within the same emotional or life foundation you are right now, he'll simply respond to you exactly the way he responds now.

I know this is quite a stretch.

It requires a deep shift inside yourself.

Develop new skills where you takes risks, challenge yourself and don't accept your present life as your real limits.

I know that what I say challenges you.

I know it is tough, but it is your chance as well.

The moment you realize how this works, it is a skill you will keep with you for the rest of your life.

Step back within your present comfort zone and you will miss your chance.

I can help you of course. It's my job to help people in situations like yours. That's my profession.

If you want to go that way, you know where to find me.

Go for it!

vitalcoach